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When Is It Enough?

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Our lives are in moments.  This means that they are fleeting.  I always hear others tell me, "I would rather be happy, when will it be enough? I don't want to ask for help." I never thought much about this question until recently.  I am a firm believer of fighting for the things you want and asking for help only if it is absolutely necessary.  However, I'm also a hypocrite. I must admit that all my life, I rarely asked for help. I would much rather figure it out on my own.  No matter how long it took, I would always try to work around the situation I was given.  Perhaps this is due to my anxiety, or maybe it's me trying to take control of being independent instead of always having to lean on another individual. I have never been the type of person to ask for help.  This is both good and bad.  I acknowledge that there are times that asking for help seems like nothing.  But in my mind, I see it as a way to burden the other person without trying to.  I am trying to k